Ok Where Do I Start..?

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim…

Firman Allah SWT:
“Dan kahwinilah orang-orang bujang (lelaki dan perempuan) dari kalangan kamu, dan orang-orang yang soleh dari hamba-hamba kamu, lelaki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin, Allah akan memberikan kekayaan kepada mereka dari limpah kurniaNya kerana Allah Maha Luas (rahmatNya dan limpah kurniaNya), lagi maha mengetahui.” (an Nuur: 32)

Nabi SAW bersabda:“Wahai golongan pemuda! Barangsiapa yang mampu di antara kamu untuk berkahwin, maka hendaklah dia berkahwin. Sebab yang demikian itu akan menjaga pemandangan dan memelihara kemaluan”



wahai kekanda Xiu Ying yang di ingati..post nih khas aku tujukan kepada ko yg bertanya soal ijab dan kabul ini..

kenapa berkahwin..?? nape ko nak kawin ek?? ko gatal ke nak kawin skang?? bukan ke ko muda lagi??? banyak duit ko ek nak kawin??? huhuhu..itu adalah soalan2 racun yg selalu akan didengari oleh ko selaku perempuan yg mengisytiharkan diri ko akan berkahwin..so..in my opinion..ignore je soalan2 tuh..kalo ko dah baca ayat2 kat atas nih yg di ambil dari surah An Nuur dan sabda Rasulullah saw. tuh ko mesti tau kewajipan berkahwin ke atas kita umat islam dan juga hukum-hukumnya...

first of alll..why do you want to get married???
why do you want to end your single and flirty life??
why do you want to settle down early in this age??
why do you think about marriage??

huhu..as for me i have been thinking about marriage for a very long time..its before afzan getting married and before we meet..i have been thinking about this a longgggg timeee ago... to be truth i've been thinking about this for a very long time...
heheh..i 'm not thinking about married most of the time..
the term MARRIED only appears to me when i went to kenduri kawin...since then i make myself full of questionable about why people getting married..

so to cut the crap i've been nagging..you just answer the question by yourself..why you want to get married...
if you have the right answer..only then you can start thinking and planning and buying and doing the preparation to the big day...